I am too old for this shit

Seriously, I am no longer putting up with people acting in a way that makes me feel bad about myself, not when I am in with both feet, working my ass off and being a good person.  I am REALLY not putting up with my kids paying for it, no way, no how.  You want to act like an ass, fine.  You want to behave like a child, go for it.  You want to choose to act in a way that disrespects me, be my guest, but know I am not dealing with it anymore and the consequences are yours to work through.  We are a valuable commodity the kids and I, treat us as such or risk losing us, I am way too old to play the HS bullshit games.